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The hidden power of introverts: How to thrive without changing who you are | Susan Cain
@ Lenny's Podcast
03/16/25
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Susan Cain
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Introversion and extroversion represent two different kinds of strengths, and both are equally valuable, though our culture often emphasizes extroverted strengths more.
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There's a spectrum of introversion and extroversion; people can move along this spectrum over time, and it's not a binary classification.
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As introverts become more comfortable in their own skin, they tend to show up more powerfully in job interviews and public speaking situations.
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Success as an introvert doesn't require becoming more extroverted; it involves being true to yourself and embracing your introverted strengths.
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To determine if you're an introvert, consider how you feel after a social event: extroverts feel energized, while introverts often feel drained and seek an escape.
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When you have no social obligations, how you choose to spend your time can reveal your true preferences; introverts often prefer one-on-one interactions over large gatherings.
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Introverts often adapt to extroverted expectations, which can lead to losing touch with their true preferences and how they want to spend their time.
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It's important for introverts to ensure their contributions are recognized in the workplace, as many valuable employees leave due to feeling undervalued.
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Introverts can enhance their visibility by sharing their expertise through writing or public speaking, which can lead to greater recognition and respect.
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Building deep one-on-one connections can be a superpower for introverts, allowing them to establish trust and recognition over time.
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Introverts should actively communicate their ambitions and seek mentorship to ensure their goals are understood and supported by colleagues.
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Saying no to energy-draining commitments is crucial for introverts to maintain focus on their passions and work effectively.
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Instead of traditional networking, introverts should focus on creating value through their work, which naturally attracts others to them, making attending networking events easier as people are more inclined to engage with you about it.
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I consider a networking event a success if I connect with one or two people I genuinely want to stay in touch with.
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In meetings, introverts can be more successful by preparing points in advance and speaking up early to anchor their ideas in the discussion.
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It's important for introverts to realize that they can strengthen their voice by speaking from a place of deep conviction, rather than just being the loudest in the room.
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To ensure introverts are heard in meetings, managers should encourage everyone to share their thoughts and create an environment where quieter voices can contribute.
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Using techniques like 'brain writing' allows introverts to share their ideas without the pressure of speaking up in a crowded meeting, benefiting everyone involved.
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Creating uninterrupted time for deep work is crucial for productivity, especially for introverts who thrive in focused environments.
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When raising introverted children, it's essential to understand their longer runway to social engagement and to support them gradually in overcoming shyness.
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Self-confidence in children comes from mastery of skills, so it's important to introduce them to various activities to find what they truly love and excel in.
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Discussing feelings of shyness openly with children helps normalize their experiences and reduces any stigma associated with being introverted.
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Introverts don't need to become extroverts to succeed; they should focus on being more of who they are while acquiring necessary skills for their goals.
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Finding work that aligns with your introverted nature is crucial for long-term happiness and success in your career.
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Gandhi, who was very shy and introverted, believed that you can shake the world in a gentle way, which resonates with the power of introverts.