One of the advantages of having kids is that when you give advice to people, you can ask yourself what you would tell your own kids, which really focuses you.

Having children can significantly broaden your perspective and help you realize that your own needs and wants are trivial compared to the responsibilities of parenthood.

In the exploration phase of life, you say yes to many opportunities, but once you find your focus, you must say no to everything else by default. I have learned to say no to requests that I wouldn't ask someone else to do; if you receive a request that you wouldn't make yourself, you can simply dismiss it without feeling guilty.

Being present for your kids is crucial; they just want your time, and that will be what they remember most.

Your children will eventually see you as human, realizing your flaws and struggles, so it's crucial to work on your problems to avoid passing them on to them.

It's generally easier to start a startup before having kids; the demands of parenting can pull you in a different direction than your startup does.

Discipline helps parents maintain a positive relationship with their children, enabling them to foster self-esteem and creativity effectively.

Learning to say no has been essential for my mental health and focus on training.

Don't do too much for your kids; let them do things on their own to build resilience.