Self-pity has no utility; instead, use life's challenges constructively to grow and learn from them.

People often have a 'woe is me' mentality, which hinders their progress; you must focus on your own journey instead of comparing yourself to others.

Overthinking about personal issues strengthens the ego, which is often the root of unhappiness. Instead of dwelling on personal grievances, one should focus on solving problems and moving forward.

You should prioritize actions that are fulfilling in themselves, rather than seeking ulterior motives that may not materialize.

Thinking about oneself can be a source of unhappiness, but some reflection is necessary to work on personal weaknesses. It's important to differentiate between productive reflection and self-obsession that leads to depression.

Detachment from personal problems is not a goal but a byproduct of realizing what truly matters. To find happiness, one should focus on larger missions or problems beyond themselves.

It's important to not complain about the struggles; instead, I should focus on how those struggles contribute to my growth and success.

Venting emotions to others can lead to co-rumination, which may strengthen bonds but doesn't help in solving the underlying problems.

Self-compassion is essential for accountability; it allows you to acknowledge mistakes without harsh self-judgment.