People often think they can find the perfect partner by comparing traits, but every partner comes with their own set of strengths and weaknesses, and it's essential to appreciate them as a whole.

In dating and property markets, people often start by determining how much they can afford, which leads to a flawed decision-making process.

The feelings we experience with certain people are the best guide to how well they suit us as partners, but we often miss key signals by not paying attention to how we feel.

Many people are not completely honest with themselves or their partners when entering a marriage or partnership, often influenced by the excitement of new love and social expectations.

The initial spark in a relationship doesn't always indicate compatibility; it's important to assess the relationship over time rather than relying solely on first impressions. If you go on a date and feel like it was a nice conversation, consider spending another hour with that person instead of rushing to find someone else, as we often overlook the potential of a second date because we think there are so many other options available.

We often fall in love quickly, but the concept of a soulmate is misleading; true love requires effort and understanding beyond initial attraction.

It's common for investors to change their minds about a founder after seeing significant progress, as initial rejections can be based on early impressions that may not reflect the founder's true potential.

In relationships, we often take deposits into the 'bank of goodwill' through positive interactions, but we tend to focus on withdrawals when things go wrong, which can lead to a lack of appreciation for our partners.

In online dating, initial filters like photos and brief descriptions are poor proxies for long-term compatibility, as they fail to capture the nuances of a person's character.