The internet has created a less efficient dating market by standardizing initial filters, leading to a disproportionate focus on superficial criteria.

The initial spark in a relationship doesn't always indicate compatibility; it's important to assess the relationship over time rather than relying solely on first impressions. If you go on a date and feel like it was a nice conversation, consider spending another hour with that person instead of rushing to find someone else, as we often overlook the potential of a second date because we think there are so many other options available.

The value of a partner or a property often becomes apparent only through long-term familiarity, making initial impressions misleading.

People often think they can find the perfect partner by comparing traits, but every partner comes with their own set of strengths and weaknesses, and it's essential to appreciate them as a whole.

Social media often presents an unrealistic view of relationships, leading to a yearning for something that may not exist. This can create dissatisfaction in one's own relationship, as people compare their lives to the curated images they see online.

In online dating, the way choices are presented can significantly influence decisions, a concept known as choice architecture.

The feelings we experience with certain people are the best guide to how well they suit us as partners, but we often miss key signals by not paying attention to how we feel.

Social media often presents an idealized version of life and relationships, leading to unrealistic expectations and feelings of inadequacy.

We initially included detailed profiles on Facebook, such as dorms and courses, to create a college-specific environment that fostered a sense of community and trust among users.