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Jocko Podcast 98 w/ Jordan Peterson. Breaking Your Wretched Loop. Dangerous But Disciplined
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11/02/17
Takeaways
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Jordan Peterson
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Evil exists in the world, and it's not just individuals; there are groups systematically committing heinous acts against innocent people.
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Jordan Peterson
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The moral failings of individuals are directly related to the catastrophic moral failings of the state, as seen in historical atrocities.
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Jordan Peterson
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Discipline is crucial for personal development; it involves making sacrifices now to improve the future.
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Jordan Peterson
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When faced with suffering, it's easy to become resentful and vengeful, questioning the meaning of life and the purpose of existence.
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Jordan Peterson
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You must take ultimate responsibility for your actions and the consequences they bring, as this is essential for personal growth and societal improvement.
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Jordan Peterson
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A good man is a dangerous man who has his aggression under voluntary control, using it for the benefit of others.
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Jordan Peterson
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To create a peaceful society, we need individuals who are dangerous but disciplined, as this encourages everyone to behave responsibly. If you're going to discipline a child, the child must see you as a force worthy of attention.
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Jordan Peterson
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Many parents hurt their children physically and psychologically, often believing they will be good parents without realizing the complexities involved.
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Jordan Peterson
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Children test boundaries to understand social hierarchies, often acting out in new situations to gauge the power structure.
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Jordan Peterson
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Disciplining children is essential; giving them infinite freedom is a misconception that can lead to negative outcomes.
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Jordan Peterson
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If you allow your children to take advantage of you, you risk taking revenge on them later, which can harm your relationship.
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Jordan Peterson
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Discipline helps parents maintain a positive relationship with their children, enabling them to foster self-esteem and creativity effectively.
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Jordan Peterson
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Your job as a parent is to teach your child how to act in the world so that others enjoy their company, which is crucial for their social development.
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Jordan Peterson
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Children who behave poorly often face social rejection, leading to a negative self-image and cynicism about their interactions with others.
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Jordan Peterson
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Discipline is necessary for children to learn how to interact positively with adults, which opens up opportunities for them.
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Jordan Peterson
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Understanding the capacity for evil within oneself is crucial for personal growth and responsibility; it helps in managing one's darker impulses.
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Jordan Peterson
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Embracing the darkness within and recognizing it as part of human nature is essential for personal development and moral responsibility.
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Jordan Peterson
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The struggle against evil and malevolence is a necessary part of life, and individuals must take responsibility for their actions to create a better world.
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Jordan Peterson
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Life is rife with suffering, and accepting responsibility for improving it is a noble endeavor that can lead to self-respect. If your life isn't everything you think it should be, ask yourself if you're doing everything you can, as that decision is essentially love.
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Jordan Peterson
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Truth is the best strategy for attaining your goals. To contend with reality, you must know what it is, as the truth of existence can be brutal and bitter.
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Jordan Peterson
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Admitting to your flaws and communicating them, especially in intimate relationships, is not cowardly; it's a sign of strength. Nietzsche suggested that you can assess a person's spirit by how much truth they can tolerate.
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Jordan Peterson
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If you're bitter, especially towards women who have rejected you, you may not realize that your bitterness can lead to destructive actions. Truth serves the betterment of being and can give your life meaning.
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Jordan Peterson
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When you're in a low place, the opportunities that present themselves may also be low. It's tempting to dismiss them, but if you don't have alternatives, taking that first step is crucial for progress.
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Jordan Peterson
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Humility is about taking what's given to you and making it work. This approach often leads to faster progress than people expect, as even trivial jobs can lead to better opportunities if done well.
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Jordan Peterson
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In a functioning society, people who show effort and competence are valued, and opportunities will open for them. Conversely, those who are bitter and resentful may find doors closed.
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Jordan Peterson
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To live a life you're proud of, discipline is essential. Writing down your tasks the night before helps you wake up with a clear direction and purpose for the day.
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Jordan Peterson
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The Future Authoring program allows individuals to write an autobiography, analyze their personality traits, and create a future plan. This clarity helps in setting and achieving goals.
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Jordan Peterson
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Specifying your goals is crucial because it helps you know what to aim at. Your brain reorganizes the world around your aims, making it easier to achieve them.
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Jordan Peterson
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You need to treat your schedule as a design for the days you want, balancing obligations with rewards. This approach helps maintain motivation and sustainability over time.
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Jordan Peterson
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If you want more free time, you need to have more discipline. The paradox is that by being disciplined, you will ultimately gain more freedom in your life.
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Jordan Peterson
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It's important to formulate a plan and implement it for a period before reassessing. This helps you understand your progress and adjust your goals as needed.
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Jordan Peterson
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Understanding your temperament is key to finding a suitable niche in life. Each temperament has its place in the economy, and recognizing this can lead to better job satisfaction.
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Jordan Peterson
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The 'Understand Myself' program allows individuals to compare their personality traits with others, helping to foster better understanding and relationships.
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Jordan Peterson
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People are ready for a message that emphasizes ethics and responsibility rather than just freedom and rights, as we've ignored this reality for too long.
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Jordan Peterson
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It's crucial to recognize that responsibility gives life meaning, especially when you're not under tyranny; you choose whether your life has positive or negative meaning by adopting responsibility.
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Jordan Peterson
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You need to find a balance between freedom and order; too much freedom leads to chaos, while discipline provides structure and meaning.
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Jordan Peterson
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The more self-discipline you have, the more freedom you actually gain, as it allows you to relax knowing you've accomplished your responsibilities.
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Jordan Peterson
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It's important to reward small positive behaviors in relationships, as this encourages individuals to repeat those behaviors.
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Jordan Peterson
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Criticism is essential for growth; it helps individuals recognize their flaws and provides a pathway for improvement.
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Jordan Peterson
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The concept of 'sorting yourself out' is crucial; it involves taking responsibility for your life and actions to improve your situation.
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Jordan Peterson
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You should pre-order books to ensure you receive the first edition, as they often sell out quickly due to high demand.
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Jordan Peterson
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The self-esteem movement has led to a culture where children are told it's okay to be weak, but we should instead encourage them to face their fears and take responsibility.
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Jocko Willink
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When you take ownership of your actions, you can improve your leadership skills and help your team solve problems more effectively.
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Jordan Peterson
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You can find a sense of purpose and fulfillment by taking ownership of your life and contributing positively to the world around you.