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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Your attitude in life is the most crucial factor for success, not your skills or other attributes. If you view the world negatively, you'll attract negativity; if you see it as an opportunity, you'll find success.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

A realistic attitude is powerful. It allows you to assess yourself and others without illusions, recognizing your strengths and weaknesses, and understanding the world and its trends.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To develop a realistic attitude, you must confront your negative mindset and understand its origins. This process is essential for personal growth and empowerment.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The book "The Daily Laws" is designed to help you cultivate a realistic attitude through daily meditations on power, strategy, and human nature, making it easier to improve your life over time.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Meditation has been transformative for me. It allows for gradual, unconscious change, helping to alter my perspective and attitude towards life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Don't take anything for granted; life can change unexpectedly. Appreciate what you have now, as it can be taken away at any moment.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Facing your weaknesses is essential. I've learned that my impatience and frustration can hinder my recovery and personal growth, and I need to confront these limitations.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Forgiveness is crucial. Holding onto grudges only weighs you down. Letting go of past hurts allows for emotional freedom and growth.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Repressing emotions can lead to negative consequences. It's important to express feelings appropriately rather than suppressing them, as this can cause issues later on.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Law number one from "The 48 Laws of Power" is to never outshine the master. This lesson is rooted in my personal experiences and the pain of being fired for violating it.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Understanding the insecurities of others is vital. Everyone has doubts and fears, and being aware of this can help navigate relationships more effectively.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Post-stroke, I resonate more with the law of assuming formlessness, which emphasizes adaptability and fluidity in life, especially when facing challenges. If you have no idea what you're going to love, it's painful because you have no direction. You need to be fluid and open to eventually discover what you truly enjoy.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Most of us won't find our true calling at 25; it often takes longer. I found mine at 36 or 37, and it's always evolving and growing.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You need challenges in life to improve. Choose projects that are slightly above your current skill level to feel excited and engaged.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

My favorite chapter in my book discusses confronting the dark side of human nature. Everyone has a dark side, and it's important to make it work for you instead of repressing it.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Repressing natural aggressive impulses can lead to issues later in life, such as addiction or anger problems. It's crucial to confront and understand these feelings instead of ignoring them.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

In relationships, it's essential to continue to seduce your partner and not take them for granted. Efforts like surprising them or taking them to special places can keep the relationship thriving.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To understand someone's secret desires, listen deeply to their childhood experiences. This can reveal a lot about their current needs and wants.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Many people are attracted to partners who reflect unresolved issues from their childhood, often leading to dysfunctional relationships. It's important to recognize these patterns.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

When entering a new relationship, it's vital to understand your own patterns and desires. Reflect on what attracted you to past partners and what you truly need in a relationship. If I become defensive and judgmental because I'm afraid of being hurt again, that past person has power over me; they conquered my spirit.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You can't be afraid to experience pain again; you have to open yourself up to love and vulnerability, which is a deep human need.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Closing yourself off affects not just romantic relationships but also your work and overall life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Don't jump into another relationship if you're closed off; be willing to heal and process your past first.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Learn to judge people by their character rather than superficial traits like charm or smiles.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

It's crucial to assess if someone can take criticism; if they can't, it can lead to a toxic relationship.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You should evaluate if a person can handle stress and if they are capable of empathy in conversations.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Having power over yourself is essential; without it, you're at the mercy of everything else in the world.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To have power over yourself, you must first know who you are and what you truly desire in life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Being disconnected from your true self leads to confusion and poor decision-making in life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

If you don't know yourself, you can't control your emotions, leading to reactive behavior in life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You have a unique purpose that is tied to your individuality; embracing what makes you different is your source of power.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The greatest athletes and successful people experience failures; it's through adversity that they develop resilience.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Not trying is worse than failing; you must take risks to learn and grow.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You have to learn from your mistakes and be willing to fail to develop the toughness required to succeed.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Life is shorter than you think; develop a sense of urgency to pursue your goals and dreams.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You need to create your own deadlines and live on what I call 'death ground' to push yourself to achieve your goals.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The worst thing in life is to reach an older age and realize you never pursued your dreams or potential.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The main lesson from my stroke experience is to be relentless and not give up, even when faced with challenges.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Dealing with fear is crucial; I push past my limits despite the risks involved in my recovery process. I've been given a second lease on life after my stroke, and I remind myself of that every day.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Mastery comes from repetition and pushing past your limits, even when facing physical challenges.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

When you die, hopefully people will remember you fondly and gather to share nice stories about you.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

In 200 years, no one will remember who I am or what I did, so I focus on making the most of my time now.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

You have to take every negative experience and find a way to turn it into something positive and productive.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The idea of Amor Fati is to accept whatever fate brings you and transform it into something valuable, like alchemy turning lead into gold.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Your attitude shapes how you perceive the world and how others react to you; if you focus on negativity, you'll crystallize that attitude.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Obstacles can be seen as opportunities for growth and rethinking your life, values, and goals.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Defeat and failure are the greatest teachers because they force you to learn and adapt, unlike success which can lead to complacency.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

When faced with failure, it's crucial to reflect on what you can learn from the experience rather than placing blame.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Confidence is extremely important in seduction; it has an attractive power that draws people in.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

After a breakup, getting back in the game and meeting new people is essential for reclaiming confidence.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Interacting with the opposite gender helps you become more comfortable and confident in their presence.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To help someone regain confidence, make it clear that you still believe in them and their abilities, especially during tough times.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

If no one knows who you are, you won't have opportunities or be able to monetize your craft, which is a disservice to the world.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Many artists fail because they think promoting their work sullies its value, but successful artists understand the importance of marketing themselves.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

In the cutthroat art industry, only a few artists can make a living, and those who succeed have learned to market and promote themselves effectively.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Many aspiring actors and screenwriters in Los Angeles lack discipline and don't know how to sell themselves, which hinders their success.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The art of selling yourself involves understanding human nature and effective communication skills, which are crucial for success in any field.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To succeed, you must understand the power dynamics in your industry and learn how to appeal to those who control opportunities.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Successful individuals know how to package their ideas and understand that people are drawn to drama and impactful narratives.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Understanding human psychology and appealing to emotions is key to effective marketing, rather than relying solely on intellect.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Success is not just about talent; it's about discipline, commitment, and the ability to work hard consistently.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Many talented individuals fail to succeed because they lack the discipline to put in the extra effort needed to reach the next level.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

People often try to learn too many things at once instead of mastering one skill, which can hinder their success.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

It's important to balance exploring various interests with the commitment to mastering a single skill, especially when starting out.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Creating a ladder of descending goals helps in achieving long-term objectives by breaking them down into smaller, manageable steps.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

When pursuing a long-term goal, focus on smaller, achievable tasks to maintain motivation and avoid feeling overwhelmed.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The ultimate goal should be to use your energy to help others and create positive change, rather than to simply defeat others.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Channeling anger and frustration into a worthy cause can transform negative energy into something positive and impactful.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Using dark energy for a greater purpose, like social justice, can be a powerful motivator and lead to meaningful change.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To avoid being consumed by anger over injustice, focus on helping others and working towards a cause greater than yourself.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Maintaining energy and drive in social movements is crucial, as initial enthusiasm can fade if not continually nurtured.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The concept of the sublime involves pushing beyond conventional limits to explore new possibilities and experiences.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Experiencing death or near-death situations can profoundly change one's perspective on life and motivate them to live more fully.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Death is not just an idea; it's a feeling that can be experienced profoundly.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Experiencing the brink of death can powerfully influence the writing process.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Imagination is one of the most powerful tools we possess, allowing us to create meaningful experiences even when physical limitations exist.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Imagination is crucial for creating something meaningful; it stems from a curious mind that expresses itself freely.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The lack of imagination can hold you back from envisioning a better future; it's essential to imagine different possibilities for your life.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Your current situation doesn't dictate your future; envisioning a different path can lead to new opportunities.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Understanding human nature and psychology is vital for anyone in their 20s to master; getting inside the minds of others opens limitless possibilities.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Empathy is a key skill; it allows you to connect with others and understand their motivations, which can lead to better relationships and opportunities.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To navigate social environments effectively, focus on understanding others rather than being absorbed in your own thoughts.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

People love to talk about their childhood; asking subtle questions about their past can help you connect with them on a deeper level.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

To build rapport, let others do most of the talking; this makes them feel valued and allows you to learn more about them.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Facing your fears is essential; avoiding them only prolongs the anxiety and prevents personal growth.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Experiencing failure or embarrassment is part of growth; it's better to try and fail than to never try at all.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Taking the first step towards overcoming fear is crucial; it opens doors to new experiences and opportunities.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

The fear of not realizing your potential can be more painful than the fear of failure; it's important to pursue your dreams.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Ambition is not inherently selfish; it can drive you to achieve things that benefit others as well.

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Robert Greene

10/09/22

@ Lewis Howes

Confronting and understanding terrible situations is necessary for personal growth; running from them only hinders progress.

"These LAWS OF POWER Will Change Your Future!" | Robert Greene

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